Words to live by....

Caryn, an Australian acquaintance, put these words of wisdom on her Facebook Wall and I've fallen in love with them:

"Don't make someone a priority if all you are to them is an option."

Acquaintance is a word all of us should probably use more often to describe the majority of our relationships. The word friendship should be reserved for warm, supportive, reliable, mutual relationships. Friendship should mean something more than just anyone who usually answers the phone when it is your name on the caller Id.

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